So, let's talk about how to deal with this situation...

Suppose you are a single and happy person. And that happens too. It can be difficult for people to understand that you are not currently looking for a partner. And if family or friends constantly remind you of this, it is most likely because they want you to be happy in a relationship – they love you. In this case, it is enough to gently remind them that it is your decision and you are fine with it. It is important to understand yourself and be true to yourself. This level of awareness is not present in everyone; many rush to be in a relationship just because they fear loneliness. And you enjoy it, so how to spend weekends, holidays, and the like:

• If you have friends who are not in relationships, take the opportunity to socialize with them
• Consider plans that have not yet been realized: a book purchased, a movie downloaded, an untried recipe, etc.

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After all, if you learn to be in a relationship with yourself - listen, feel, love, value, accept yourself, then in relations with another person, you will be able to hear, feel, love, appreciate value, and accept them in the same way.

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And if you already know what it means to be true to yourself, let's try to figure out why you don't have a relationship with another person yet.

Now admit first to yourself and answer the following questions:

• When a real chance for new relationships appears, what are your actions?
• What patterns are observed in all experiences: do you return to the same relationships over and over, or do you choose people who are obviously unsuitable for you, and these relationships are doomed, etc.?

And if the answers make you change your perspective on the issue of relationships, then it's time to start acting. Top 3 rules:

• Understand who you need. You probably already have a list of requirements for a potential partner, but the question is whether you are also ready to meet someone else's list. After all, in reality, everyone needs not so much to be happy – some need human relationships, some are looking for a sexual partner, others dream of children and marriage. Consider your long-term plans and this will help narrow down your search.
• Set priorities. It is naïve to think that relationships will fall into your lap when you are sitting on the couch after a long working day. Even searching for a job and housing takes much more effort. Dedicate time to meeting new people and expanding your social circle. And be prepared that a meeting that will change your life will definitely happen over time, but life will immediately become more interesting, brighter, and fuller.
• Evaluate your strengths. Look at yourself from the outside, are you interesting to a potential partner, would you want to date yourself? Become the person it is "thrilling" to be around - that is what most people, including you, are looking for.

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And no matter what your current experience is, the main thing is what you want.

If you decide to change your life, the iPsycholog team can, knows how, and is ready to support you on this journey…

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